Wednesday, December 4, 2024

Something Wise and Wonderful from my Dad

 Fw: Letter from Grampa 20241201

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What a beautiful last letter from Dad to Drew.  Made me cry a lot and I thought I should share it with you two.  Love you both!

----- Forwarded Message -----
From: Rick Fernandez <fernandez.rick55@gmail.com>
Sent: Sunday, December 1, 2024 at 11:41:09 AM PST
Subject: Letter from Grampa 20241201

Dear Elder Dunnihoo:  Well, it has come down to this.  I have written close to 100 letters in the last two years, and this is the last one.  I will miss this weekly ritual, at least until Roman starts his mission.  And how wonderful it has been to read all of your emails and hear of all your wonderful mission experiences and lessons.  By all that I have seen, your mission has been a great success.  You have served the Lord diligently and with great enthusiasm and faith, and you have influenced many people for good.  But your service has just begun, because now your whole adult life is ahead of you, and the Lord will have further need of your strength, service and devotion.

Your mission has also been of great service to your family.  Your example to your younger brothers will influence their lives forever, and not only your brothers, but many younger cousins as well.  I hope that each one will follow in your footsteps.  Your mother is so proud of you, and your honorable mission has done much to buoy her up through her life's challenges and disappointments.  As you return home to a noisy house and face anew the intrusions and frustrations of normal family life, remember kindness, patience and forbearance as Christ has shown us.  This has been a challenge for me too in times past, and a matter of some repentance, but I am getting better all the time.  You must do the same.

Remember to show compassion and love to your father, who struggles with many things as a consequence of a difficult upbringing and the harboring of wrong ideas about life's source, meaning and purpose.  You can be an example of Christ's love and forgiveness and be a great influence upon him as you keep in touch with him often.

I needn't provide much counsel to you about working hard.  You have been a hard worker for several years now!  Let me just say: Keep work in perspective.  Work is two things.  First, it is service to others in ways that they want and need, and second, it is a means to support yourself and your future wife and children.  It is not wealth accumulation meant to inspire envy in others.  It is not a contest to show one's dominance over others.  It is not a means to obtain the glory and praise of men.  It is the secular, yet sacred, pursuit of the happiness and welfare of your family and others.

Well, it's time to go to church.  We all love you, Drew.  See you this Friday.

Love,

Grampa

Sun, Dec 1, 2:06 PM (3 days ago)


to Diane, me

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