We've gotten to that point in life where we're just busy a lot of the time. Some people take pride in their busyness, and "wear it as a badge of honor" (as one of our church leaders once said ... I think it was Elder Uchtdorf). I've never been one of those people. I loved my simple, slightly boring life when I only had 2 kids and life was slow.
Those days are over. Daniel and I were sitting down and planning out the next several weekends, and I was like, "When is life going to calm down again?" And he said something like, "Babe, I don't think it's going to. I think we've reached that time in life when we're just busy."
*sigh*
I love my life. But I don't want to be one of those people that's always "busy" or "too busy". 🤷🏽♀️🙄
This week, for family home evening, we played hide-and-go-seek and sardines for activity, and it was so fun! I hid in the basement, not very well hidden, and the kids walked past me a couple of times and didn't see me. They were looking all over the house for me, and it was so funny. We all laughed when they finally found me and realized they'd completely missed me. The kids loved doing sardines, too! It was a good time.
We had soccer practices on Tuesday, the day when I'm driving back and forth between practice fields and home. And we went grocery shopping before that as well.
I had a Relief Society activity that night when we got back from practices, all about learning to put together charcuterie boards. And it was fun!
Wednesday night, Gina Smith hosted a barbecue as a goodbye party for some of our friends that are moving out of the ward, Elise Pearson and Dani Swinyard. We are and talked, and the kids played. The Smiths really do have the perfect backyard for parties, with a swingset, trampoline, climbing dome, and a cement patios for eating. The kids and I had a great time.
Thursday evening Brooke had her first soccer game (at least the first one she played in... we missed a couple while we were gone). It was fun and adorable to watch those little girls running around on a field. And I think Brooke learned a lot about soccer. She didn't play very aggressively, but I think she still had fun.
I packed a dinner for us to eat while she played, so that we could still be sure to get kids to bed on time when we got home.
Today, for homeschooling, the girls went one at a time to do an oral presentation for the rest of us about ancient Egypt. Camille just got up and started saying some of her favorite facts about ancient Egypt in general, and Brooke prepared a sheet with talking points about the Nile River. They both did well, and it was adorable to observe.
After school, we ran a few errands, and then went to Cornbelly's for the rest of the day. We'd gotten a discount code from our friends, and Lily Perkins also had a dance performance there that we got to watch. We had a good time. Daniel met up with us there when we were getting food. Sawyer was hard to manage, because he just wanted to go places on his own and not be in the stroller the whole time. And Brooke is getting too old for certain things, which makes me sad. I kept asking the kids if they wanted to do specific things, and Brooke kept saying things like, "No, I don't really want to do that." The corn pit was definitely everyone's favorite. That was the first thing they wanted to do, after pictures in the tractors.
We also went to the park one day this week, and Brooke didn't want to play on the playground that much. 😭 She's growing up! She doesn't want to do little kids things anymore.
Homeschool was good this week. We're still figuring things out. We have good days and bad days. I've found that Brooke struggles with getting distracted from her work very frequently; she watches me when I'm working with Jack or Camille and makes comments, and I'm constantly having to remind her to do her own work. Camille struggles with getting frustrated with some of the work she has to do, and it's sometimes hard to motivate her to get her work done. Or she'll only put in a half-hearted effort.
Our days alternate between good days and not as good days. Wednesday was particularly nice and fun. I think getting outside on our bikes and going to the park went a long way in helping everyone's moods. I'm hoping to get into a routine where we get outside or go somewhere every day.
Sawyer has started walking with help. Brooke and I often take his hands and he walks along holding onto our hands. Brooke loves helping him walk. He's getting so big! He says a few words and he's starting to walk. This week, he started answering yes and no questions. "Do you want your milk?" "Yes." "Shall we go upstairs?" "No!" Or he'll shake his head and say, "no, no, no, no, no" when we do something he doesn't like. It's adorable.